DECEMBER 30th. FEAST OF THE HOLY
FAMILY
Gospel: Luke 2:41-52
Translated
from a homily by Don Fabio Rosini, broadcast on Vatican Radio
Reflection on the Gospel follows the Scripture passage ...
GOSPEL Luke 2:41-52
Every year the parents of Jesus used to go
to Jerusalem for the feast of the Passover. When he was twelve years old, they
went up for the feast as usual. When they were on their way home after the
feast, the boy Jesus stayed behind in Jerusalem without his parents knowing it.
They assumed he was with the caravan, and it was only after a day's journey
that they went to look for him among their relations and acquaintances. When
they failed to find him they went back to Jerusalem looking for him everywhere.
Three
days later, they found him in the Temple, sitting among the doctors, listening
to them, and asking them questions; and all those who heard him were astounded
at his intelligence and his replies. They were overcome when they saw him, and
his mother said to him, 'My child, why have, you done this to us? See how
worried your father and I have been, looking for you.' 'Why were you looking
for me?' he replied 'Did you not know that I must be busy with my Father's
affairs?' But they did not understand what he meant.
He
then went down with them and came to Nazareth and lived under their authority.
His mother stored up all these things in her heart. And Jesus increased in
wisdom, in stature, and in favour with God and men.
SUMMARY OF DON FABIO'S HOMILY ....
Mary loses Jesus and then finds him
again three days later in the temple. She ponders this event in her heart for
the rest of her life. Twenty years later, she loses Jesus for three days again,
but then finds him risen. The Lord prepares us for our mission in life with
events and signs that we must ponder continually in our hearts. His future
action in our lives is prepared for by His past action in our lives. What are the
things that God has wrought in my life that I need to ponder continually?
Don Fabio also asks us to use
this Gospel to reflect on the fundamental spirit of obedience that
characterizes the Holy family. Joseph, Mary and Jesus are distinguished by their obedience to the will
of the Father. In this passage, Jesus shows himself to be consumed with the
desire to carry out his Father’s will. The key to a healthy family life is that
the family members put obedience to the will of God first and foremost in their
lives. Only then can we learn to be true fathers and mothers, brothers and
sisters.
Mary teaches us
the importance of pondering the right things in our hearts
The
key for understanding next Sunday’s Gospel is to be found in the phrase, “His
mother pondered all these things in her heart.” The story that Luke recounts to
us has something that is going to be of great importance to Mary later. Mary, the
model of wisdom, is the archetype of how one should relate to God, and she
teaches us the importance of holding things in our hearts. But what exactly
should we conserve in our hearts? This particular Gospel passage holds up one
thing in particular that deserves to be pondered continually.
Mary loses Jesus
and finds him three days later in the temple. During the Passion she will lose
him again and find him three days later.
At
the age of twelve, every Jewish boy (to this day) is expected to undergo his “bar
mitzvah,” a rite which marks the transition to adulthood. The boy is expected
to be able to read the Scriptures and be able to respond to questions posed by
his elders. From this point on, he can take his place in the religious assembly
of the people of Israel.
Jesus undergoes this transition in an
indirect way during the family visit to Jerusalem. Mary ponders that moment for
the rest of her life because it was the moment in which she lost him and then
found him again three days later in the temple. She lost him because he was engaged
in his Father’s business. Twenty years later Mary would remember this event when
she lost Jesus again in Jerusalem because he was engaged in his Father’s
business, and she would find him again alive after three days. God prepares us
for our mission in life with signs and events that remain impressed in our
memories. These are events that have a particular symbolic force, and we
recount again and again during our lives. At the age of twelve, Jesus performs
this prophetic act, and Mary must hold it in her heart. In order to understand
the present ways of God in our lives we must ponder on his past ways. The
wonderful things that are to come have already been announced in the things
that have already happened. This is true for all of us. What are the significant
things that have happened to us that we need to ponder in our lives?
The Holy Family is
a model of obedience to the will of God
Liturgically,
we celebrate the Feast of the Holy Family next Sunday. The three members of the
Holy Family are fundamentally united at the core of their beings in their obedience
to the Father. Joseph fulfils his role with regard to Jesus and Mary in
complete obedience to the instructions of the angel and to the plan of the
Father. Mary, in her obedience to the angel at the Annunciation, goes on to
live out her wondrous mission of being the mother of Jesus. And Jesus, in this
Gospel passage, is shown to be completely caught up with the desire to be
obedient to this Father. He is on fire with the longing to be engaged in his
Father’s business.
Jesus, true God and true Man, reveals to
us the meaning of our existence, which is to be obedient to the will of the
Father. Like him at twelve years of age, we must immerse ourselves in the story
of God, and develop hearts that have no other desire than to be occupied with
the affairs of God, conforming themselves to His sacred will.
Healthy family
life is based on the way the family members conform themselves to the will of
God
This
conformity with the will of God is what keeps our families together, heals our
existence, and enables us to grow. This is what makes us genuine women and men,
authentic adults. The only one who can transform us into responsible adults is
the invisible Father. He is all-powerful yet loves us tenderly. It is only when
we become faithful children of His, acting in conformity to His will, that we
are enabled to become fathers and mothers in the truest sense, taking a proper
place in our own family life and in our own destinies.
WHILE
WE WERE WAITING FOR DON FABIO’S HOMILY TO APPEAR THIS WEEK, WE PUT UP TWO OTHER
REFLECTIONS ON SUNDAY’S GOSPEL. THEY CAN BE FOUND BELOW. The first is part of an online homily given by
Fr Munachi Ezeogu, cssp. The second comes from a film on the life of Jesus of
Nazareth.
A
little boy greets his father as he returns from work with a question: “Daddy,
how much do you make an hour?” The father is surprised and says: “Look, son,
not even your mother knows. Don’t bother me now, I’m tired.” “But Daddy, just
tell me please! How much do you make an hour?” the boy insists. The father
finally gives up and replies: “Twenty dollars.” “Okay, Daddy,” the boy
continues, “Could you loan me ten dollars?” The father shouts at him: “So that
was the reason you asked how much I earn, right? Now, go to sleep and don’t
bother me anymore!” At night the father thinks over what he said and starts
feeling guilty. Maybe his son needed to buy something. Finally, he goes to his
son's room. “Are you asleep, son?” asks the father. “No, Daddy. Why?” replies
the boy. “Here's the money you asked for earlier,” the father said. “Thanks,
Daddy!” replies the boy and receives the money. Then he reaches under his
pillow and brings out some more money. “Now I have enough!” says the boy to his
father, “Daddy, could you sell me one hour of your time?” Today’s gospel has a
message for this man and for all of us, and the message is that we need to
invest more of our time in our family life.
The
gospel shows us Jesus at the age of twelve. That was the age that every Jewish
boy was expected to make his bar mitzvah and so become a responsible subject of
the law. It was a ceremony of legal adulthood. From then on he was required to
keep the law and make the annual pilgrimages to Jerusalem like any other Jewish
man. One way teenagers celebrate their coming of age is to go out and do those
things that the law had hitherto forbidden them to do. You know your boy is
growing up when he stops asking where he came from and begins to not tell you
where he is going. As we can see, Jesus was no exception. To celebrate his
coming of age he attends the Temple Bible class without informing his parents.
When his parents catch up with him after two days of searching for him
everywhere, all he tells them is, “Why were you searching for me? Did you
not know that I must be in my Father's house?” (Luke 2:49). Even holy families
do have their occasional tensions and misunderstandings.
The
most puzzling part of the story, however, is the way it ends: “Then he went
down with them and came to Nazareth, and was obedient to them” (v.51). The
twelve-year old adult Jesus already knows that his mission is to be in his
Father’s house and be about his Father’s business. From the test-run he did in
Jerusalem earlier that day, it was clear that he was already capable of doing
it very well, because “all who heard him were amazed at his understanding
and his answers” (v. 47). The puzzle then is this: If Jesus, already at the age
of twelve, was ready to begin his public mission, and was evidently well
prepared for it, why would he go down with his parents and spend the next
eighteen years in the obscurity of a carpenter’s shed only to begin his public
ministry at the age of thirty? Were those eighteen years wasted years?
Certainly not! In a way that is hard for us to understand, Jesus’ hidden life
in Nazareth was as much a part of his earthly mission as his public life. We
are reminded that it was at this time that “Jesus increased in wisdom and in
years, and in divine and human favour” (v.52). And when we reflect on the fact
that for every one year of his public life Jesus spent ten years in family
life, then we shall begin to understand the importance and priority he gave to
family life.
We have two lives, a private or family life and a public or
professional one. These two lives should be in harmony but very often they are
in tension. Whereas Jesus resolved the tension by giving priority to his
private life, we, unfortunately, often try to resolve it by giving priority to
our professional life, leaving our family life to suffer. Rose Sands writes
about the unhappy man who thought the only way he could prove his love for his
family was to work hard. “To prove his love for her, he swam the deepest river,
crossed the widest desert and climbed the highest mountain. She divorced him.
He was never home.” The celebration today of the holy family of Joseph, Mary
and Jesus reminds and challenges us to value and invest in our private life
with our families before our professional life at the work place, even when our
job is as important as saving the world.
The second reflection on Sunday’s Gospel
comes from a film on the life of Jesus we saw last year in Italy. When Jesus is
crucified, the disciples lock themselves indoors frightened and confused. Only
Mary, the mother of Jesus, seems relatively calm, even though she too is
grieving. One of the disciples asks her how she manages to stay so composed and
she replies by telling him the story fo the finding of the boy Jesus in the
Temple. She and Joseph had been distraught for three days, and then they found
him in the Temple. In the same way, she has no doubt now that she will find
Jesus in three days time “in the Temple.” In other words, his separation from
her was because he had to do his Father’s business. And when that business is
done, she will find him in a glorious way, restoring the temple of God that he
himself embodies.
The
story of the finding in the Temple has something to say to all of us at times
of grief, confusion, worry or despair. The three frantic days of worry
represent any period of time in our lives when we feel frightened, lonely,
lost, or depressed. And just as Mary and Joseph found Jesus when that terrible period
was over, so we too will find great happiness when the “three days” have
passed. If a woman loses a child, it will most likely be a long time before she
meets that child again in paradise. But she can be sure that the day will come
when she will find her loved one again “in the temple.” The same goes for any
other burden that we are carrying. The time when come when the Lord’s saving
presence will be felt and that burden will vanish. All that matters is that we
hold steadfast to the Lord during these “three days” of trial, never losing
hope in his saving and redeeming love.